Friday, October 5, 2007

Of hypocrisy and "family". Fucking lame

*Reflections post*

WARNING : This is going to be a semi-deep post. So, if you don't like deep stuff don't read it. Oh wait, if you already come to my blog to read my posts, its obvious you do read deep stuff. Its not as if you came here to read what colour my crap is.

Another WARNING : This is going to be about something that A LOT of teenagers do. I'm guessing that theres a high chance that half the readers are doing this thing that I'm going to post about. And i'm going to critize it like shit, so like, if your sensitive, gtfo =). And no , its not got tits or fuck off.

OK!

Firstly, hypocrisy. This fucking applies to both genders, guys and girls. How many of us have heard some bitch/fucker say "Oh, I don't care about physical appearances when it comes to my partner. I look for the inner beauty." K, well, that is CRAP. Pure bullshit. We've fucking hormonally-charged teenagers. Our attraction to each other is caused by lust and physically stuff, with a touch of emotional stuff in it. We're not grown ups, we don't go for other people out of emotional need.

Honestly, if there was a choice for this super fat dudet/dude , with a heart of gold, totally gentleman/woman, nice, caring, listens to you. In other words, perfect on the inside. Choice B , however, would be this super leng zhai/leng lui person, just...perfect on the outside. However, inside, his not to say bad la, his quite ok, with a few character flaws, and not as nice as Choice A. If both of them were pursuing you, which one would you choose?

Don't fucking kid yourself if you say its Choice A. Your being delusional. You know it that you'll choose B. So darn it guys, stop saying you look for the inside? Your being ignorant, and being a hypocrite. Bloody idiotic people.

And yes, I admit that I go for physical appearances more. Though of course, if the person I like is a total bitch, the feeling will disappear after a while. If she's like ok, then hell yeah, i'm going for her. Yes, I'm THAT shallow.

Oh yeah, before i end this topic, would like to note something. Obviously, the personality part does come into play. I wouldn't be surprised if its a major part for most crushes. However, most of you people out there say it as if its the only thing that matters when coming to crushes. Idiots, the physical aspect also plays a big part la. Don't act like a frikin saint.

Ok, on to the 2nd topic! "Family"

Notice the inverted commas? Yes, its because I'm not talking about your real, biological family. I'm talking about your "adopted" family. Not in the sense of orphans who get adopted, cause the family that adopted them can be considered as their family.

No, I'm talking about school "families". Ya know, the pet brother/sister/uncle/father/mother/grandfather/distant cousin/pet/maternal grandaunty's-cousin-in-law's-brother's-daughters-cousin. This is especially prevalent among the lower forms, like Form 1 and 2's. I cringe everytime i read people posting online "Hi daddy." or "Hi brother. I love you so much". I cringe even more everytime i hear someone shouting out "PAPAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. MAMAAAAAA. BROTHERRRR. SISTERR" In real life.

Dudes/bitches, wth???? And these "families", the parents and their kids have like what, a 2 year age gap? Thats fucking sick man. I have yet to find a reason as to why this "families" are established. Is it cause the parents are so much more wiser? Hell no, we're all teenagers. Its fucking lame i tell you. And then when they start connecting the relationships, urgh, even worse. "Because XXX is my mother, and YYY is my brother, and that your are YYY's brother, then XXX must be your mum. Your my brother! HI BROTHER." *Smacks the bitch/fucked-up dude's face*

Guys, seriously, its way lame liao la. You guys want to be close to each other, go right ahead. Age doesn't really come into play la. You don't see me going up to one of my classmates and saying "Bang Vincent. or Daddy Wye Lup. or Sister Eugene. or Mummy Yee Yan" even though they're all older than me. Darn, lay off it la. So lame, you want to enjoy a family life? There's this nice place called home where your REAL family, your parents who are so much wiser (Unless they abuse you when they're drunk. ya know who i"m tokkin about XD).

Ok, before ending, last thing. EVEN GUYS DO THIS. SICK AND FUCKING WRONG. Okay, if girls do it, understandable, *still "wai" la, but up to you guys la* But if a guy goes "Hi mummy/sis/bro/grandfather's sister's-in-law punya abang", thats...wrong .

Still, its my opinion bout this stuff k. I'm not forcing it on to you guys, and the fact that your already reading this post should mean that you know that. If any of you have your own opinions, do tell bout it in the comment box!

Wait, just write it on your own damn blog. I want my comment bax to be filled with compliments only!. I'll rename it my compliment box =)

10 Comments:

At October 5, 2007 at 11:39 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

-1st-
Yup. U are right. Humans are fake. When the time to choose came, they will totally choose the one which not the same as what they think. I meant normally they will say I will choose the A because they want make themselves like a good person (Say only mah, not going to choose also),but when they really have to choose, who don't wan a better one? At least, he can bring the B out and proudly say that this is his wife (The ppl outside also dunno her inner characteristic).

Well of course, this all about choosing between inner beauty and physical look. But, if in reality. You will only choose the one you have feel towards. Love meant love, no matter what, no reason why. When the feel come, how ugly she is or how bad is she... you will still love her.

In conclusion, choose according to feel. If you love her, just go for it. No matter how she is.

-2nd-
Your school... LOL...
Well, may be they just have nothing better to do. Anyway, don't take it so serious. Face it with smiling face.
Yet, I do have my pet bro. But that one is really because I don't have own brother so I just treat some people as my bro. Care them like a sister did.
But, the one u talking...
Is like... over over...
I meant... the connecting of stupid relationship... LOL..
Anyway, everyone have their own right. What we can do is just reply them a smile when they called u "papa" "mama" or others... (^^)
Stay cool and chill ya~

 
At October 6, 2007 at 4:08 AM , Blogger Foo said...

Hey! Call me Fuchuk gor gor next time you see me or not I'm gonna snap your twig into 2.

 
At October 6, 2007 at 4:27 AM , Blogger Jonathan Chin said...

Nah, your too old 2 b my brother

You'll be papa foo zhuk, mama vincent, ah gor y lup, ah jie eugene and so on and so on.

We're such a happy family =)

 
At October 6, 2007 at 9:13 AM , Blogger ..... said...

right, i'd probably give a really sarcastic remark right now to your above post.....
but i'm too emo to do it...
i'll give you all the comments that i wrote eventually
too bad i'm emo now, my comments are really good <--- lolz

 
At October 6, 2007 at 8:43 PM , Blogger NosTalGia said...

LOL...u cant relli stop ppl from doing that anyway..deir choice..i aledi used to it in maple d..lol..

 
At October 6, 2007 at 11:09 PM , Blogger Jonathan Chin said...

Right, i'll be waiting for your comments queenie (OMg, i just named you. too bad)

And nostalgia (LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL), like i said in my post. my opinions la. I'm nt asking you guys to stop it, i just personally think its lame. Its nt as if i go to some one and smack him in the face right? lol, ya want to do your stuff, its up to you. None of my business really =)

*Incidentally. Lol, were you really expecting me to be a nice guy? Haha, i'm mean, and i express it on my blog. I'm not gonna b nice and b sweet just so other people enjoy reading it =).

*Darn, this is like another post onli ==.

 
At October 7, 2007 at 3:25 AM , Blogger Hanson said...

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At October 7, 2007 at 3:29 AM , Blogger Hanson said...

dude... erm... i dunno how to start...but i'll start it this way...

1st topic: outer-look and inner-look

ok.. 1st thing normally you guys will ask "eh.. leng chai or not??" or maybe "walao eh... this gal chun weih" *the scene will goes to the transformer when ladiesman's gal check his car engine... hoho~~* so... 1st thing they ask is the outer-look..

on the other hand, have you guys ever heard ppl ask... "eh... he's inner damn *fill in yourself* la..." or "eh... she's so fucking *fill it yourself* on the inside" for example, when you see a gal that you dont know her at all and you ask your fren "eh.. that gal looks kind la.. or maybe "she's so understanding..." Oh man.. this is so so out man.. and super weird... damn gay too if you ask this kind of question...

so conclusion, 1st question being ask is about the looks and not the inner ones. according to jon :"fuck those gay-ers and bitch that say they'll prefer inner than outer 1st." hahaha

i have a similiar case where i have a crush on a gal.. she doesn't looks cute or pretty.. but have those mama look. she really cares about ppl and super kind one... like your own mummy. but when i think that "can she be my gf.." i think twice... 1st thing come to my mind is "the look", she does not suit my taste... but seriously if she become my gf ar.. super happy dy... so, in the end, I still goes for looks 1st.. then make fren with the gal i like.. then only find her inner-look.

2nd topic: no comment... cuz i'm one of the example too.. hahaha...

p/s sorry for the long post... can blog on your comment site dy... hoho~~

peace dude...

 
At October 7, 2007 at 6:51 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

To HaN§oNn,

Well, although I dunno you, still support you point...

As you mentioned that you have a crush which is kind and the outer look consider as ok... I meant if got feel then go for it ler... Feel is the main thing in a relationship~ If not, when you lost her, you will regret... (Sry... just giving some opinion) No offend.

(^^)However, remember physical beauty not forever, but inner beauty is forever. Of course, we as a human we like nice thing~ Who don't~ So... Just trying to have both. That's the best~ But I guess, when you love someone, you won't bother bout how is she/he~

 
At October 7, 2007 at 3:22 PM , Blogger Jonathan Chin said...

Haha, yeah. Agree with ya hanson and samantha.

Bout the first topic, of course the inner beauty matters too. I've never said it didn't. But, come on, obviously people would go for physical beauty first right, then only inner beauty comes into play. Those who say otherwise are just deceiving themselves =)

On the 2nd topic, lol. You can do it, its totally up to you. I'm not asking you to stop it, or anything. Just my opinion on the subject, so if ya think that there's nothing wrong with the family thing, go ahead by all means. Its your life, its you who decides how to live it. On to the next post!

Cheers

 

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